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MILLIONAIRE MATCHMAKERS in Sydney & Melbourne

Millionaire matchmakers do exist and are becoming more popular as people find they are time poor and cannot find their partner through traditional online dating websites. Single people are becoming increasingly fed up, wasting time and becoming really disillusioned with their search for a partner so they turn to us; the Millionaire Matchmaker.

The role of a millionaire matchmaker whether men seeking women or women seeking men is to search their extensive database of clients and match people up who are all highly successful professionals or business people. Essentially, they are at the top of their game and are able to afford a matchmaking service where most of the clients are actually millionaires who all want to the same thing; a partner

I know in Sydney and Melbourne with the property boom going full steam ahead there are now lot’s of millionaires but a matchmakers role is to find these single, eligible and very wealthy individuals and introduce them to each other. Basically, if they are on the hunt for a partner we will do our very best to help them find one. That’s our role as an elite matchmaking agency and we must boast that we are really good at what we do.

The Millionaire Matchmaker service goes well beyond the evident to examine your personal needs, your likes, what your really wanting out of a relationship and then go about helping you find someone are attractive, intelligent and in your socio economic space.

Like most successful millionaires, you are busy, time poor and focused on your career or business. The last thing you want to be doing is hanging at bars trying to find someone. You are so over this scene and it’s why you turn to us for help. Our Millionaire Matchmaker service is designed to help you expand your social circles and ultimately find real love. We have so many millionaires as clients that it’s just a matter of time before we are able to match you up with your equal.

Australia’s Millionaire Matchmaker service, found with Executive Match, has over 12 years of experience and we are seriously good at pairing like minded millionaires, professional singles and executives up.

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Do matchmakers work?

Definitely! They really work, especially if you are prepared to engage the services of an agency like ours at Executive Match. As the name suggests we only work with executives and people who meet our very strict and rigid screening process and yes of course you have to be prepared to pay a premium for this service. Why? Because we have the very best of the best on our books and we have lots and lots of eligible single millionaires who are keen to not only meet their partner but to eventually turn a date into a serious relationship. A meeting with our millionaire matchmaker is all you need to be fully confident that we know what we are doing when it comes to pairing millionaire men and women up.

If your in Sydney or Melbourne and your looking for our Millionaire Matchmaking service and know you will meet our criteria, please contact us via the inquiry form on this website. We have offices in the CBD so we make it really easy for you to pop on in for a quick chat on your lunch break or after work.

How Much Does a Dating Agency or Matchmaker Cost?

The cost for getting a dating agency or matchmaker in Australia to introduce you to a man or women can vary greatly depending on the type of service you are after or the kind of person you want to meet.

It really comes down to the respective dating agency and to put this bluntly you really get what you pay for.

Let’s start by outlining exactly what a matchmaker does. Essentially, their role once you signup with them, is to introduce you to another person who shares similar interests, goals, values and is more in line with your socio–economic standing. Matchmakers, especially in large cities like Sydney and Melbourne are now becoming more common as an ageing population starts to find themselves as singles. Put simply their role is to find you are partner. There are loads of dating agencies and dating services that can be found online but in addition to our own service, we particularly like the following company. It’s been around a long time and seems to have a great reputation.

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You might be asking why can’t you just go online and register with the multitude of dating sites and apps? Well, many people do, but there is a percentage of the population that do not want to go down this path and prefer someone to do the leg work for them. It’s a fantastic service for those people who have tried these types of sites without any success.

In terms of costs they can be broken down into two categories.

The cheap and cheerful dating agency: These would generally charge you around $1000 – $2500 and you would end up getting roughly 4-5 introductions. They generally have a policy where they will they will accept any client with the promise of introducing them to gorgeous, fabulous people but in reality these matchmakers are just money machines and are after a quick sale. They will say almost anything to get you to sign up with them but the reality is you are unlikely to meet the right person. Why? Because they have a take any one on board mantra and they rely on volume. Essentially, they will get you to go on as many dates as you can very quickly so you resign up with them again and pay more money. Occasionally, there are successes but overall it’s a churn and burn approach to matchmaking.

The executive or professional dating agency: These dating agencies charge between $5000-$7500 and because of the high value placed on signing up they will generally get a more professional clientele who can afford to part with this type of money to meet someone.

The advantage of using an elite dating or matchmaking service like this is that most people here are in a certain economic bracket and therefore the pair ups are more likely to work. After all if you are matching apples with apples the outcome is more likely to succeed. You will find that most of the men and women in this category are either professional or successful business owners who have recently become single and are now looking at meeting someone in the hope of finding a partner.

Another advantage of paying a bit more is that your matchmaker is going to put more time and effort into finding you a partner as opposed to those cheaper agencies that will not put the energy into finding you a partner because they simply are not being paid enough.

Imaging your an executive and are on a good salary and you have just become recently single (divorce, break up etc) and you are keen to meet someone. Now, just think about paying $1000 for 5 dates. It just won’t work. The chances are you will meet someone who is not even remotely what your looking for. This just puts a dent in your enthusiasm to meet someone and may end up keeping you single for longer. It basically works against you. Ideally you want to be matched with like for like.

As the saying goes: ‘pay peanuts you get monkeys’. This is also very true when it comes to dating agencies. If you can afford it and you are really serious about meeting someone then make sure you go down the path of choosing a professional matchmaker.

Cheap and cheerful agencies can work and are generally great if your in your 20’s or early 30’s. If your in your mid to late 30’s, 4o’s, 50’s and beyond I strongly suggest paying just that bit more for a far far better result.

If you would like to use the services of a professional matchmaker call Robyn on 1300 553 510  – she’s the very best in Sydney and Melbourne and will be able to help you find true, long lasting love through her extensive experience.

Important Rules for Men who are dating in their 40’s

There are so many reasons why professional men in their 40’s are still single. They may be focused on their career, are workaholics or may have been recently separated. Many of these men who have reached the pinnacle of their careers or bus9iness life now find that they need a new challenge or find that they have more spare time on their hands and are looking for a partner to join them. For most men this is not as simple as it used to be when they were teenagers or in their 20’s. Tomes have changed and so has the way people meet and date each other. For guys in their 40’s who are serious about finding love they need to take a look at themselves and their situation and make certain changes if they are going to attract the right partner.

A lot of guys will simply get discouraged and put it in the too hard basket and simply wait to bump into someone. This is not the way to go and meeting the love of your life will not happen with this attitude. It’s the digital revolution now and dating has shifted to meeting people online or finding a matchmaker online who can introduce you to the right person for a fee. If your in your 40’s or 50’s this latter method is probably the best way forward.

You now have so many new ways and opportunities meet women as you never have before. So following are 5 golden tips for guys in their 40’s and 50’s who want to start dating again and meet Ms Right.

Forget about your divorce. You really have to forget about the past before you can even think about moving forward with someone in the future. If you still love your ex-wife or are in the middle of a nasty divorce or perhaps there was an unfortunate death you have to get well over this and make sure it’s behind you. Being bitter of angry and keeping this baggage with you n your dates is not a good start. It will show and the women you are trying to meet will pick up on this cynicism or aggression. Ideally, you want to be baggage free and ready to accept someone new in your life. You will feel much better if you have this attitude. The sooner you deal with it, the better.

Know exactly what you want. There are a lot of guys who want a full love life. The children have either left or are with their mother and it’s now time to try and meet someone new. The issue is they are really not sure what they are wanting or looking for. Do they want a sexual partner or someone they can hang out with as a friend? There are no issues with knowing what you want and your priorities may and most likely have changed over the years. Think carefully about this before you start the process of trying to meet someone. Remember you have to be really honest with yourself. Some decisions might be hard to make but being truthful here will set you up nicely for the future. Last thing you want to do is make another mistake or go down the wrong path. If you are confident with what you want, women will definitely find this more appealing.

Be proud of your age. You’re a mature guy and there is no hiding this. You have seen a lot of things and most likely experienced more than others half your age. Be proud of your age and own up to it. If you try to hide this fact that you are in your 40’s or 50’s to women in the hope that you will be more attractive then you are not being realistic. It’s setting false expectations and laying the foundations for failure. If you want to meet women who are down to earth then be real about your age. If they are after a toy boy then they are not the right match. Use age as a tool to your advantage. Think about all your accomplishments and use it to your advantage. Your probably a very successful man who has achieved a lot over the last 2 to 3 decades. Be proud of this fact and what you have done.

Get fit! As you grow older you are going to start to loose muscle density. You need to slow down this process and you need to also remain highly flexible. Hit the gym, go for a swim and make sure you incorporate some yoga into your life. This will strengthen your core as well as your mind. If you have let yourself go and are out of shape you need to turn things around before you start hitting the dating scene. You need to start feeling better about yourself and more confident about who you are. Training, eating healthy, getting 8 hours sleep a day will be the first step in creating the new you!

Get a matchmaker. Forget about large dating websites like RSVP or Tinder. These are for the 20 year olders and as a professional guy you need to meet the right type of lady. This is a really important step and you should not waste time or money on sites that don’t work. A matchmaker will be able to assess your personality and match it to the right kind or women. They will also be able to council you before you go on you date and help guide you through this process.

These five fantastic dating tips for men are only the very beginning. You should start on these as soon as you can to begin turning your life around. These are small steps but gradually as you get the hang of it you will be able to make more positive life changing decisions for yourself. You’ll start to feel a lot better about yourself, and the women in your life that you attract will be so much more on your page.

FANTASTIC DATING TIPS FOR MEN (written by women)

If you have been out of the dating game for a long time and need some tips and help to get you through the dating process then following are some really good tips for guys to learn, remember and apply when they are out there dating. It’s not easy if you have been in a relationship for a long time and are a little rusty on dating etiquette, but these tips are golden and they are written by women who are experts at dating.

First impressions count. Don’t wear your track suit pants or those ripped jeans. Save those for your mates. She will sum you up very quickly and you need to be wearing very smart, yet casual gear and make sure you have shaved. Also, and this should be a no brainer but wear some deodorant. If you are the sweaty type make sure you have after shave and a good dose of deodorant. If you look good, dress well and smell great you are on your way to making a great first impression.

Make plans to meet in a place where you are going to feel comfortable. Perhaps go to a café that you know well or a local pub. It’s stressful enough going on a date so make sure the environment is relaxed and casual. If it’s a regular hang out for you even better. Get there 10 minutes earlier so you can relax and get into the dating zone. You don’t want to be rushing there and arrive all flustered.

Be very confident without being arrogant or pushy. Women love men that take control and exude an air of confidence. If you have used a matchmaker for this introduction, then you have paid a decent amount of money for this service. You are probably a business owner or professional who is in control during the work environment. Take this attitude and confidence to the date. Being meek and mild will get your no where. Show that you are in control and that you are a serious person. Don’t try to be too funny or out of character to impress. They will see right through this façade.

Don’t over drink. Stick (if you really feel like having a drink) to 1 or 2. You don’t want to loosen up too much on your first date.

Do not do all the talking. Listen to what she has to say and engage her in polite conversation. Being too chatty or dominating the conversation and making it all about yourself is a big turn off for her. Ask a lot of questions about her to make her feel as though you are really interested.

Try not to discuss past relationships or bad mouth your ex wife, girlfriend or partner. Take a positive and happy approach to the date and it will pay off. Being negative about past relationships will only paint you in a bad light.

Keep your phone off. Don’t make any calls or answer any emails. This shows a lack of respect. We know your a busy professional or executive and are used to being on the phone but for the sake of the date going well, break the habit for a couple of hours.

Make sure you pay the bill. Be a gentleman and refuse if she offers to pay half.

If you like her and have had a good time follow this up with a quick SMS or call that day. She will appreciate the feedback. Avoid playing games by not contacting her for days. Remember you are both adults and communication is going to be key to keeping this newly founded relationship happy and moving in a positive direction. If you don’t call her for say a week, she will think your not interested and you may be blowing a fantastic opportunity.

So you have read all our great tips and you have your date all lined up. Next is to take a deep breath, chill out and try to enjoy the next hour or so on your date. It’s all about having fun and being yourself.

Used RSVP or Tinder and not getting results?

This is common. RSVP and Tinder is great if your in your 20’s but you can forget about meeting a long term partner if your in your 30’s, 40’s and 50’s. Now, before you start saying that your best friend met their partner on RSVP and you have heard so many success stories, let me tell you that based on the number of people using this site, these are just a small fraction. Sure there are people that have met and fell in love using these sites but it is such an exception.

RSVP & Tinder have so much traffic and so many people using it that it’s essentially a number game. People are on there dating dozens if not hundreds of people. It can become and addiction for some people who are constantly on the look out for the next best person. Simply put, these larger dating websites have had their run, have had their time in the sun and are now basically sites for hooking up for a quick encounter.

I thought I would list the issues with using dating sites like RSVP and Tinder for people who are genuinely looking for a real relationship.

# 1. Because it’s so competitive in this space and everyone is trying to out do the next person, a lot of people will put photos of themselves up there that are not relevant. Yes we all want to look younger and beautiful but to put a picture of yourself that’s a few years old on there gives people the wrong impression. We hear so many stories of people that have gone on an RSVP date only to be absolutely horrified when they meet the person in real life. They look so much older than their picture. This is really common and it happens all the time. Don’t for 1 minute think that I am exaggerating here as this is done by probably 50% of the people on RSVP or Tinder. It’s a rort and you only end up wasting time and being aggravated that the person you thought you were meeting turns out to be their 10 year older brother or sister. It’s a huge disappointment.

# 2. RSVP and Tinder are now really only for game players. People will randomly accept kisses or likes from anyone and not actually do anything about it. For guys this is a real issue especially on RSVP when they will send out 10 kisses and get say 8 positive replies to these. They will then spend the money on stamps to engage with these women who end up not getting back or replying. A real waste of money. It’s such a hit and miss when you go down this path.

# 3. For girls, watch out. These sites are really not about looking for love but are instead about looking for a good time. Guys are mostly on these sites for 1 thing and 1 thing only.. If you don’t believe this then be warned. Try a few dates out and you will see what we mean. If you are serious about finding a real relationship and falling in love then these are the wrong dating platforms for you.

So what’s the answer for single, eligible professional people in Sydney and Melbourne who want to find a real partner?

The best way to go about this is contact a matchmaker. Now, before you say that we are just giving ourselves a free plug here, think about it. We interview and meet all our clients before they sign up with us and this means that you get to meet people that have been fully screened. This eliminates so much time wasting, effort and dud dates. We also only take on those people who can afford our services. This means that we take on only the very best of the best. This way when you go on your first date you can be rest assured that you are meeting someone of the highest calibre. So stop wasting time on these really useless dating websites, be proactive and talk to the team at Executive Match today.

 

Single Executive Men, are you looking to meet Ms Right?

If you’re a single executive man out there in Sydney or Melbourne and you are struggling to meet Ms Right, you are not alone. There of hundreds if not thousands of guys exactly like you out there who are single and have remained that way because they do not know what to do or how to take the first step in meeting the right women.

Conversely, guys there are so many single women out there looking to meet you. It’s crazy! The amount of eligible single women who are recently divorced or who are new to the dating game is astonishing. You would be amazed to know that the number of women looking to meet a single professional man is at least 5 to 1. That’s right guys for every 1 single guy out there, there are 5 women looking to meet you.

How do single men meet these women?

There are many ways you can go about getting out there and meeting Ms Right. Times, however have changed and it’s not as easy as it used to be. Remember back in the good old days when you were in your 20’s and you used to go with your mates to the pub and then to a club? Well, that’s different now. If your in your late 30’s, 40’s or 50’s you can forget about this. Heading off to the local pub or back to your old watering holes is not going to work any more. Sure, you can go in there for old times sake and have a drink, but most of the people in there will be in their 20’s (just like you were) and they are not going to like you approaching them. Remember, you are a lot older now. Plus you really have nothing in common with them. The ladies and women you want to meet are all in their 30’s, 40’s and 50’s and are certainly not hanging out in bars or clubs!

So where to from here?

What’s really popular at the moment is online dating. I’m sure you have heard of this and there are tones of online dating websites and apps out there that you can joining quickly and easily. But, there is an issue with these types of sites:

– they are really time consuming

– you have to go on so many dates to meet the right person you click with and chances of that happening are really low

– people are game players on there and women often put photos hop images of themselves or photos taken when they were 5 years younger. It’s a real gamble being on these sits and I say it’s a waste of time, effort and energy.

So where does that leave you, the very eligible bachelor who wants to meet a single professional female?

The answer is simple, you need to talk to a matchmaker. Yes, you heard me right, a matchmaker. This is now becoming a really popular way of meeting women for guys who are time poor and have the capacity to spend the money to meet highly successful and gorgeous women.

A matchmaker will take all the headaches and hassle away by introducing you to compatible women on their database who are looking for guys just like you. It’s so easy and so simple and if your prepared to put the time into a 60 minute meeting with a matchmaker you could be well on your way to meeting the right type of lady. So, forget about being lonely or single. Simply get in touch with us here at Executive Match and we will introduce you to some lovely women. Obviously, we are very discreet and all your information is treated in a confidential manner. We have helped so many professionals in all walks of life, layers, doctors, business owners, CEO’s, heads of industry, actors, politicians – you would be surprised who has used us.

So guys make the move and get in touch – it does work!

12 things YOU SHOULD NEVER say on a first date

If your new to the dating game or are just out of a relationship and are looking to get back into the dating scene, there are some topics that are off limits on your first date. You may need a refresh so stick to these and you’ll be doing just fine. These are 12 topics that are off limits.

1. So, what went wrong with your last relationship?

You don’t want to found out all the sordid messy details of the last relationship. If it ended badly you don’t want to get an insight into this too early on. The first date is all about getting to know the person. Ask about their favourite sports or what they like to do on the weekend or perhaps ask about their job. Keep it light n fluffy on the first encounter.

2. I’ll pay.

Most guys want to pay on the first date. It’s a guy thing and they’ll be happy to pay. Don’t mention paying or insist on it if they reach for the bill. It may embarrass them or make the situation uncomfortable. Perhaps as a good will gesture say you will pick up the tab for coffee next time.

3. Do you mind if I dash off to make a quick call?

Not cool if your going to step outside and make a call. It sets a really bad impression. This is of course unless there is an emergency. Also, don’t keep checking your emails or looking at your social media. Attention should be focused on each other. After all, isn’t this what the date is about? If you have paid a matchmaker to set you up then be in the moment!

4. I’m mates with all my exes.

Oh, this is terrible. This lets him or her know that your exes are still hanging around. Plus it shows that they have not been able to keep a relationship. Unsteady ground here people – avoid this one!

5.Why are you still single?

This is just code for: is there something the matter with you? If the person opposite you is hot and a real catch if you ask this question it’s just like saying: I think your fabulous so why am I so lucky to be here with you. It gives them the advantage and puts you at a disadvantage. Perhaps approach it like this: you seem like a great guy or girl, tell me how you got into swimming or yoga? Don’t put them on a pedestal by thinking they are too good for you.

6. Sydney or Melbourne is only temporary for me, I’m moving.

 An instant date killer. Why are your there on a first date if your planning on skipping cities. Never say this.

7. I’m changing my look completely

 If they have seen your photo and want to meet you they obviously like the way you look right now. Changing your hair colour, getting a new look is throwing uncertainty into the mix here. They’ll be immediately thinking: ‘what will they look like later on?’.

8. I still have strong feelings for my ex

 Wow – does this need an explanation? If you have feelings for your ex, try to work it out with them. This is not fair to the person sitting opposite you, is it?

9. This is the first time I have ever done something like this.Don’t let on that you are a newbie! You need to project confidence and air of being totally in control, be happy and make sure you eye contact. Your date will never know that this is the first time for you. Remember, it could be the first time for them as well. Be strong and they will respect you for this. If your shy and show that your very nervous on your first date try to control this.

10. It’s up to you

It doesn’t matter what your doing next. If your off to a new bar, café or want an extra serving of chips with the mains, make sure you have an opinion. Don’t leave it totally up to the other person. Show some imagination, be up front, present options. Do not give all the power to the other person.

11. Make mine a double.

Don’t tell them that you want to drink to much. This shows that either your nervous and need to drink or you have a drinking problem. Nothing worse than being opposite someone that’s drunk. If you feel the need to have a big night out save it for your mates. Do not over drink on your first date.

12.How much money do you make?

A rude question and one that should only be asked if your very close to each other. A definite no no for a first date. If you must know this then Google their job description when you get back home and get your information from this. Finance and politics are best left for much later on.

7 things you DO NOT want to do on a first date

If you have just been divorced or are recently single and you are new to the dating scene then following are 7 things you definitely do not want to do on a first date. Break these rules and it could get uncomfortable for you.

#1: Go to the movies. This is a killer as your sitting next to a complete stranger in total silence. The idea of a first date is to get to know someone. The only way to do this is meet for a coffee of a drink and spend some quality time getting to know them.

Sitting in a cinema is just going to be odd and uncomfortable. If you’re a movie buff and you are keen to see a new flick, then go with a mate or a relative or even go on your own. You might think it’s a good idea but wait till you are on your 4th or even 5th date before you hit the movies together. There are so many things wrong about movies on a first date that they are too numerous to mention. So take our advice and avoid this completely for the immediate future.

# 2: Go to the beach for a swim. OMG, this is not a good idea especially as so many people are very self conscious about their bodies. The last thing they want to be doing is peeling off all their clothes in front of you and heading off for a swim. Keep the beach for later when you both know each other a little better.

# 3: Hear off to a yoga class together. Again, like the beach any physical activity should be left till much later when you are more align with each other. Plus, like the movies, you want to be in an environment where you can talk to each other and get to know one another. A yoga class requires silence and this is not what a first date should be about.

# 4: Don’t get too drunk on the first date. Avoid drinking lot’s of alcohol as this can send some really bad signals. Sure, you may be nervous and yes a couple of wines will help calm you down, but leave it at that – no more! Slurring, over passionate first dates are such an ugly look. It may be hard to stick to this but you have to try it. You will be amazed by the positive impression you will make by staying sober. Guys, if your reading this take note! Stop at a couple of drinks…leave it at that. If your too drunk your going to try things you’ll regret especially if you like her. Control here is the key and you will be in a much better position on your next meeting, rather than having to apologise for your bad behaviour (that’s if you get a second date).

# 5: Don’t expect to sleep with the other person on the first date. There may be some expectations about this, especially from the guys side of things but this is a definite NO NO. This first date is all about getting to know the person and seeing if your compatible. That’s all it’s about and nothing more. Yes you may have a kiss on the cheek at the end but leave it at that.

# 6: Don’t be late. Yes it’s fashionable to be a couple of minutes late but anything over 10 minutes is just plain rude. If your stuck in traffic and this can be common in Sydney or Melbourne or your a busy single executive professional stuck in a meeting, SMS them to let them know your running late. Be polite and say your so sorry when you first meet. This will diffuse any tension from the party that’s been sitting there waiting for you.

# 7: Don’t turn up without any money and expect the other person to pay. Pay your share and if the other party insists they pay make sure you have offered.

These are some golden first date rules. Follow these, make the right impression and you will be well onto your second date.

DATING ADVICE FOR BUSY PROFESSIONALS IN SYDNEY & MELBOURNE

We know that you’re a successful business man or women and have reached the top in your field. Basically, you’re a very busy professional dedicated to your work. But, you still need time to find love and keep that flame burning bright. This can prove very difficult in today’s fast paced work orientated environment. Sure you can start a relationship with someone you have met through a matchmaker but the trick here is to keep the romance alive and not to become consumed by your work.

Even if your totally happy with the way the relationship is going you still have to put time, effort and a great deal of your energy into keeping the 2 of you together. There are certain things you can do to keep the momentum of the relationship moving in a forward and positive direction. Whether it’s a date night, going to the movies, having a dinner together, going away for the weekend or even something as simple as a long phone chat, you have to make the time and dedicate it to the other person.

If you are prepared to put in the effort you will see the relationship blossom into what is hopefully a long term partnership.

Essentially, it’s possible to have a successful career and relationship if you make certain changes to your behaviour. You will and I will emphasise the point here, you must change your ways and set time aside for the relationship component. If you don’t do this or are prepared to accept the status quo then this is going to make things a lot harder for both you are your partner.

Having said all that following are a few tips for busy professionals keep the flame burning strongly:

Put time aside for a date. Don’t do this for the sake of it or as a gesture. Make sure you keep the date and put lots of effort into it. We understand your both tired after a busy day or you have to deal with the kids on the weekend but plan an easy dinner, somewhere casual where both of you can relax, unwind and enjoy the moment. Actually, it doesn’t have to be a dinner, it can be as simple as grabbing a quick drink after work or meeting for coffee at lunch. The point here is that the 2 of you are together strengthening your bonds. If you work in Sydney or Melbourne’s CBD there are heaps of places you can meet. Trick here is to plan a couple of days ahead and do not make any appointments that will clash with this. You can cancel 1 or 2 times but any more will start to fracture the relationship.

Be affectionate when you can. Surprise your partner with a hug or kiss and tell them how much you like or love them and show your gratitude to them. Perhaps even a small gift even though it’s not their birthday. Random gestures of affection will go a long way in keeping the flame alive. A good idea is to invite them to your place and cook them a home meal!! Make sure you pick up their favourite dessert or snack on your way home from work. This is a real treat and they will love you for this.

Make time for the person everyday even if it’s just a couple of minutes. Getting complacent and falling into a routine is very easy. If your both really busy it’s important to find the time to speak to each other during the day. Give yourself 5-10 minutes in a quiet room where you can devote all your attention to that person.

Try not to talk about work too much when you get home. Work probably plays an important part of your life and you have been absorbed by it for many years but leave it at work. Park your issues, clients etc at the office and come home with a clear mind and ready to engage with your partner in a relaxed state. If you thinking this is too hard, perhaps it’s a good idea to have a glass of wine to settle down a bit. The point here is to be 100% attentive to your partner.

These are just a few tips to help all you busy execs out there. Stick to these and the romance will stay alive.

If however, you are a really busy professional and still on the market looking for Mr or Ms Right contact us here at Executive Match – we have a massive database of professionals just like you looking to make the connection.

Why Single Guys Need a Matchmaker

If you’re a single guy in Sydney or Melbourne and are thinking about hiring a matchmaker cause you have had no luck with other larger dating websites or you simply don’t have the time or inclination to do this yourself then following are 3 great reasons why executive, professional men should use the services of an expert matchmaker.

If you have been married or in a long term relationship then it might be hard entering the dating scene again. For many men this may seem like an impossible task. Firstly, your out of practice and secondly all your friends are married and you certainly can’t hit the bars and clubs at your age.

This is where a matchmaker comes in real handy. You have the money, you’re a successful guy so why not use someone who has the contacts and resources to help you find a partner. A matchmaker is the perfect solution and will take all the stress, anxiety and headaches. Essentially, the do all the hard yards in helping you meet the right type of woman.

Following are 3 great reasons why you need a matchmaker to help get your love life back on track.

They make it easy for you. Let’s be honest here and admit that you are out of practice and do not know where to begin when it comes to finding someone. Things have changed. You are not in university anymore when it was so easy to meet girls. You’re a grown up now and the playing field has changed. It’s not how you remembered it. You really have to understand this point. You’re a grown up now in a professional environment and the women you want to meet are not simply hanging around waiting for you to pick them up.

Only a matchmaker has the database of available, eligible, professional single women who would be the perfect fit for you. They will know your current situation, your personality and will be able to match you up with the perfect partner. It’s really a no brainer. If you can afford it, you should do it.

You are in your routine. Which means you see the same people, socialise with the same couples and the chances are slim that your going to meet anyone new. Even if you did meet someone from within your crowd you will probably know their husband which is going to make things very uncomfortable. This is where a match maker becomes very handy. They will have lots of available women who are now in your circle and even better not in your suburb. They are able to cast a wide net and attract single females who like you, are looking to meet up. It’s the perfect win win.

It’s going to save you time and lots of money. Realistically our matchmaking services at Executive Match are not cheap but we are known for having the creme de la crème of single executive professional and business owners in Sydney and Melbourne. We can match you up with people who are on your social – economic level. This means you are not wasting time of other dating sites and apps that are really a hit and miss affair. Let’s be real here you don’t want to waste time and money going on countless, fruitless dates meeting women who are totally incompatible with you. Matchmakers cut this process down to a point where you are only meeting a few women but believe me when I tell you these are the best of the best. It’s so much better putting all your effort into 1 date that you know is right for you rather than 20 dates that you know will never work out!

There you have it—three great reasons why you should be using a matchmaker if you’re a single guy looking for love.